Removed a Third Party

I spent 3 years manifesting my specific person before asking for help. I had been in a situationship with my SP while he had a 3p. To my credit I did manifest him getting back in contact with me and wanting me, but he wasn’t willing to leave the 3p.

Unfortunately, after 3 years of this he decided to break up with me. I felt so blindsided and I think I got a little PTSD from that.

I thought I’d never get another chance, and every day felt like I wanted to die.

Your coaching changed everything. We went so deep into emotional organization that I finally could see all the layers of myself, the ways I’d been holding the old man in place, how I equated validation and attention with my worth and why I could never maintain an end state.

I had the tools to navigate triggers.The part that blew me away the most was uncovering how I had been keeping the third party in my inner world alive. It sounds insane, but once I buried the old man my life changed.

I remember the moment I heard from mutual friends  that he and the third party had broken up. From my old self, I would have thought it was impossible. But by then, I was already in a completely different state. I had been practicing your exercises, stepping into the reality I wanted, entertaining the idea that life could actually feel good, and that love could exist without fear or effort.

Here’s how my end showed up:  We literally ran into each other at a grocery store, he had moved into an apartment nearby. He told me he was single now.  I was like, excuse me, you dumped me, remember? And he laughed, apologized for everything, and promised he would do better this time. I told him I was different too and I didn’t want to be a second choice. I never thought I would tell him that straight up, but it just came out and that’s the moment something magical happened. His eyes changed. They were full of love. This is when I knew it was done.
The way he looked at me made me feel just how I felt in my end.

And the way he’s showing up now… I don’t even know him from the man I thought I knew. Pauly, what you teach isn’t just manifestation, it’s a reality shift. I can finally see the world differently, I can hold love lightly without fear, and I can truly enjoy the presence of the man I want without needing to control or manipulate anything. I can’t believe this happened, and I owe it all to your guidance, your depth, and your ability to put a state into words in a way that actually works. I’ve never felt so free, so loved, and so seen.

Thank you for giving me tools I’ll carry for the rest of my life. I finally understand how effortless love can be when you do it right.