Never Been Chosen

I hope my success really gives people hope. This time last year I was thinking another year without SP. You can turn it all around. Trust me.

I used to be the kind of woman that was seen as a good friend, but not the one men would pursue. The guys who liked me would never quite be the one I wanted. I was like Goldie Locks in dating. No one was just right.
When I learned about the law, things started to change. I made new friends, I grew in confidence, and for the first time in my life, I felt like maybe just maybe I could manifest a relationship with the kind of man I had always dreamed of being with.

He came in as part of my new friend’s group. Everything about him was what I imagined in a partner: kind, funny, generous, family-oriented, responsible, elegant, high-quality in every way. And yet, he seemed impossible for me. The women he usually dated were the slim, polished, sophisticated types I never thought I could be. I tried the usual methods, tried to “get noticed” in the old way, and affirmations and inner conversations, but I got the opposite. He got a girlfriend. Moved her in. Seemed completely in love. It was crushing.



I started working with Paulie. The sessions weren’t about trying to force anything outside. They were about me, about dissolving the old patterns and truly changing. It was challenging but necessary. The first time I could truly feel the presence of unconditional love I cried. I had never felt so relaxed and accepted.
From there it was simple. I focused on the relationship I wanted, having that awareness that I was finally with the right man, feeling the delight and ease of being a girlfriend, of being loved without conditions,we just belonged to each other.

I played with self concept, following my joy, not perfection. I practiced with specificity sometimes, imagining how it felt to be in a relationship with him as truth already existing in my state.

He broke up with his girlfriend.

He reached out to me, just to hang out. At first, I was cautious. I didn´t want to get attached, but even in that moment, I could feel it: he’s really into me. The way he looked at me, the way he laughed, the small gestures,  it all confirmed it. We started spending more time together just us. We cozied up and he gave me a little kiss. I gave him lots of big ones. We are so into each other and I love every second of it!

Paulie, I can’t believe how different it feels to approach manifestation this way.
You told me what unconditional love truly was. I don’t have to try to be good enough anymore
Thank you for guiding me through this process. It’s changed the way I see myself, and the way I experience love.